You are the protector of yourself.  We are daughters, lovers, aunts and a friend, a manager, an advisor and more... but are you also a protector? Are you letting go of attachments and choosing peace for yourself? You are strong, you are free. We are so used to looking back, looking for, looking into things, looking forward to… and so on, but are you looking after yourself?

After a certain amount of experience, disappointment and many developments that are exactly the opposite of what I thought, another phase began. I started to read people's faces and behaviours better and nonverbal communication has become much more important to me. This outspokenness that has been around since my childhood, raises the following question: For a sincere and peaceful life, isn't it necessary to stay away from these people,  but more importantly isn't walking awa

Was I calling out the loneliness way too much in the past? I was thinking about pushing my limits to further but I realize that these people are so busy with their gossips, jokes, stories that they will not remain silent for one second and look around. Observing is good when the observed is also, and after sometime it is not easy to be a child especially in a "grown-up people" crowd. But, it is also true that some crowds are appealing to just stand or sit just right in.

Hey friend, how about letting go of the complaints and the frown. Instead of dwelling on someone or something and feeling sad, how about taking action? How about stop holding your hand in the air? You are still sitting on that couch, insincerely daydreaming. How about getting up, reaching out and expressing your feelings and thoughts instead of playing them over and over again in your head, feeling them through song lyrics.  Why do nothing? They say "a clarity hurts you bette

Nothing is worth turning into a suitcase you carry around. We’re freer when we’re light. If someone has hurt you, forgetting is a blessing and a kindness, to yourself. And beyond that, there’s another kind of forgiveness too: letting go of your own mistakes so you don't judge yourself and forgive yourself for your many previous mistakes. I don’t accept that what people call 'so pure' has to be twisted into 'so fool-ish'. Seeing people as they are, and seeing yourself as you a

I like the fact that I can manage my life and having important responsibilities, being busy with my own things and do these things in my own way. However, sometimes I feel crazed thinking that I'm at maximum capacity and feel tired especially if these responsibilities includes another person's burden.  Thinking I'm good at something and then taking on the burden of others becomes more silly than helpful. I guess I encounter this problem because I want to take a role but I try

How can I learn to see difficult situations in a better aspect and learn patience along the way? Little crying, little dancing, little dreaming, and a little flying. Life is wildly wavy, as always. There are many things I want to do and experience and I know now that I need to change a lot in my life to make it happen. It's overwhelming, to be honest, and hard in many ways as I see there will be a lot of confrontations, but I also can't imagine it any other way. Like a caterp