After a certain amount of experience, disappointment and many developments that are exactly the opposite of what I thought, another phase began. I started to read people's faces and behaviours better and nonverbal communication has become much more important to me. This outspokenness that has been around since my childhood, raises the following question: For a sincere and peaceful life, isn't it necessary to stay away from these people, but more importantly isn't walking awa

Was I calling out the loneliness way too much in the past? I was thinking about pushing my limits to further but I realize that these people are so busy with their gossips, jokes, stories that they will not remain silent for one second and look around. Observing is good when the observed is also, and after sometime it is not easy to be a child especially in a "grown-up people" crowd. But, it is also true that some crowds are appealing to just stand or sit just right in.

Hey friend, how about letting go of the complaints and the frown. Instead of dwelling on someone or something and feeling sad, how about taking action? How about stop holding your hand in the air? You are still sitting on that couch, insincerely daydreaming. How about getting up, reaching out and expressing your feelings and thoughts instead of playing them over and over again in your head, feeling them through song lyrics. Why do nothing? They say "a clarity hurts you bette

Nothing is worth turning into a suitcase you carry around. We’re freer when we’re light. If someone has hurt you, forgetting is a blessing and a kindness, to yourself. And beyond that, there’s another kind of forgiveness too: letting go of your own mistakes so you don't judge yourself and forgive yourself for your many previous mistakes. I don’t accept that what people call 'so pure' has to be twisted into 'so fool-ish'. Seeing people as they are, and seeing yourself as you a

Balance is something that can be disrupted. With a high level of focus I can maintain balance however sometimes, it only takes one thing and there it goes. As my life is the same way, I understand that everything can change in one minute. There is the pool of opportunities and happenings and sometimes you ask for one thing and then it arrives to you, but the circumstances are different. Within one change, in one minute, you are different. This doesn't happen often and I think

What is our heart saying in the noise of so many people in our lives? Between the town criers on the street, the wailing sirens and the familiar voices of people and neighbors who speak as if they are always arguing, families whose hearts are so far from each other so have to scream just to be heard over the others... Storing thoughts and feelings to evaluate later like a computer isn’t the answer. How can I turn down the outer voices and listen to what my heart is telling m

How was the life you dreamt of when you were a kid? This morning I woke up with Schatzi hugging my chest, his head on my neck, smiling. I spent an amazing 10 minutes realizing how amazing that moment was. I called the little version of me and said: " look! who is here! " She would have been wildly happy, screaming and excited. Big smile. I am looking at my life and seeing how many things that little girl would be grateful for, as I am still her. What was your dream life as